Keira’s pals help her stay grounded

Keira Knightley (AP Photo)

The 22-year-old actress reveals that she likes to spend time with her old buddies, who don’t give her advice but hope that she does well.


Actress Keira Knightley keeps her feet on the ground by keeping in touch with pals who knew her when she was not a famous movie star.

The 22-year-old actress reveals that she likes to spend time with her old buddies, who don’t give her advice but hope that she does well. “I keep in touch with my mates,” Daily Express quoted Knightley, as saying.

“They don’t give advice. They’re more likely to take me out for a glass of wine and a cigarette and hope for the best,” she added. The actress asserted that her recent tragic role Cecilia in Atonement made her extremely emotional.

“I read the script and sobbed and I knew it was good when my mum saw it and cried, too,” Knightley said. The actress was asked if she is thinking to win any award for her love scene with actor James McAvoy and she giggled. “The best sh*****g award, do you mean,” she said.

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Jodie Foster warns her kids against acting

Jodie Foster (AP Photo)

‘The Silence of the Lambs’ star has warned her kids not take up acting as their career.


Actress Jodie Foster has warned her kids not take up acting as their career. ‘The Silence of the Lambs’ star is also anxious that her decision might be hard for her kids, Charles, 9 and Kit, 5, to take.

"I'm really hoping they won't pick that path. It's not that it has been bad for me, but it is hard," Contactmusic quoted Foster, as telling the Empire magazine. Foster is known for her roles in films like ‘Bugsy Malone’ and ‘Taxi Driver’ as a child actress.

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Leave me alone!

Not everyone can perfect Angelina Jolie's pout or emulate Salma Hayek's dazzling persona, but there are millions out there who're trying. With images of supposed perfection assaulting them from every direction, high levels of efficiency mandatory in the workplace and exacting demands in society, many youngsters are now unable to cope. They are increasingly isolating themselves and today, they suffer from a malady called 'social anxiety' disorder, also known as social phobia.

Fear of scrutiny, heightened self-consciousness and apprehension about being judged are some of the reasons why youngsters would rather be on their own. A young employee who is marginally overweight, says, "I have great difficulty making friends. I don't like interacting with my colleagues either. I would rather be left alone with my laptop in my cubicle and listen to music on my iPod."

An IT professional, Pradip N, who is undergoing therapy for social anxiety shares, "I would get mentally disturbed while interacting with people in my office, which is why I had to seek help. I had no confidence and would worry myself sick before any meeting or presentation."

Says psychiatrist Dr B Kapur, "Every four out of 10 patients who come to me suffer from social anxiety disorder. This is especially amongst young adults and adolescents who are unable to cope with social situations. Many of them suffer from palpitation, headaches and nausea. It is not shyness as some believe. Social anxiety has to be recognised as a disorder and needs to be treated."

In public places such as work, meetings, or shopping, people who suffer from this disorder feel everyone is watching, staring and judging them. Many of them feel others are noticing every movement they make, critiquing and making negative judgments about them. It is believed that social anxiety is the third largest psychological problem in some parts of the world today, but unlike other psychological problems, it is not well understood, hence often misdiagnosed by healthcare professionals.

Says Bangalore-based psychiatrist, Dr M J Thomas, "Social phobias start in adolescence and are centred on fear of scrutiny. In the US, one out of eight people has this phobia. It is associated with low self-esteem, desire for perfection and fear of criticism. A person with social phobia anticipates and ruminates over the problems that can occur in case of social contact, resulting in avoidance of the situation and in extreme cases, social isolation. They experience rapid heartbeats, trembling, sweating, upset stomach, diarrhoea, muscle tension, blushing, confusion or a panic attack."

Says Dr Ajit Bhide, consultant psychiatrist, "Youngsters who are not socially adept get increasingly isolated in life. Low self-esteem is one of the main reasons. They'd rather be with their gizmos and chat with people online than meet them personally."

However, good news is -- social anxiety disorder can be treated with medical, cognitive and relaxative therapy. Explains Dr Thomas, "One theory is -- it may be related to an imbalance of a chemical called serotonin that transports signals between nerve cells in the brain. Interestingly, this is the same chemical imbalance linked to other mood and anxiety disorders. It may be precipitated by an embarrassing social event in the past."

Both medication and behaviour therapy have proven successful in treating social phobias. Gradual, controlled exposure to an anxiety-provoking situation helps. Patients are shown how to make eye contact, talk louder and slower, greet people and say good-byes, ask for favours, respond to requests and criticism. Eventually, they learn to mingle around.

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